The Way of the Superior Man

The book in 3 sentences: To accept the positions occupied in the polarity of intimacy, the two People must unite their hearts and souls.

You can discover what your true life purpose is.

You can learn what women truly want. Favorite quotes: “A fearful person who knows they are afraid is much more reliable than a fearful person who is unaware of their fear."” “Your fear is the sharpest definition of yourself.” “Every moment of your life is either a test or a celebration.”

Key points: Be who you are. Live with purpose. Understand your partner. Channel the energy of attraction. Master physical and sexual practices. Summary + notes: Be who you are.

When we settle for "enough" instead of giving our maximum effort, we feel incomplete.

The Superior Man approaches every question in the same way: freely, lovingly, and fully. This is how he achieves exceptional success in whatever he undertakes.

Instead of giving your girlfriend just enough for orgasm, offer her everything you have and approach the world in the same way. Always accept your innermost desire to understand your deepest truth, to experience the full spectrum of freedom and love, and to contribute with your fullest gifts.

The masculine core is based on openness and trust— to fully be yourself, you must learn to face sorrow and anxiety without shrinking. In this section, we will discuss how to do this and why it is vital.

You must not close your heart to avoid pain.

Closing off is an inadequate response to pain—it blinds you to the subtle signs and nuances of the situation and prevents you from acting with full intelligence.